English - Shani Abergel

What Should I Do?
If this is the question you're asking yourself...
You're in the right place. Because it's all about action.
But not just any action. Spinning your wheels makes you tired and doesn't take you where you want to go.
You need action aligned to you: your purpose, your values, and what you really want.
If you're tired of the loop,
It's time to understand it. See it. And identify the actions that will move you out of it.
If you're ready to move forward
It's time to connect with your true self - a surprisingly pleasant experience.
What would you change if you had a magic wand?
This is the first question I ask my clients.
The energy you feel when you answer that question -
this is the inner spark I can help you connect with,
the spark that will ignite the change you are seeking.
How To Connect with your Inner Intelligence
Purpose - your role in the world - and Values - what you consider important above all else - are part of the human toolkit. Your toolkit.
The thing is, they are invisible. It's hard to use tools you can't see.
My Inner Compass Method, created and refined since 2017, uses a series of specially formulated questions to articulate purpose and values quickly and accurately without externally imposed categories or labels.
These tools cut straight to the core of "What should I do?" to illuminate underlying questions and desires, and suggest ways to move forward.
Effectiveness. Efficiency. And being authentically seen, which feels really good.
About Me
I'm interesting in learning to navigate life. Which means understanding both the self and the surrounding environment.
I'm not a psychologist. Some say I'm a coach, but I do not have a coaching certification. My background is in cultural systems and how they communicate with one another - I have a Masters' degree in Intercultural Management & Organization from Paris Dauphine University. I've applied my understanding of cultural systems to the cultural level of individuals and groups, creating my own method to
The following are what allow me to guide others:
Words. I speak 4 languages (English, Spanish, French, Portuguese). I love and study grammar, phonetics, literature and theater.
Unwritten Rules. I've applied my study of cultural rules to individuals and groups (Masters' degree in Intercultural Management & Organization).
Uncertainty. I've had my share, as an expatriate, parent, and entrepreneur.
Authenticity. I create safe, caring environments where people can be and explore Who They Are. Montessori kid from a family of Montessori educators.
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Praise: Moving Forward
Shani is one of those people who crosses your path
- a magic elf, a fairy godmother, a fortune teller - she is all of these. Working with her is a constant pleasure; everything unfolds with finesse and mutual trust. She leads you to the right questions and opens your heart to the essence of you with kindness and humour. It's easy to get used to.
Once she helps you unleash your energy, you move forward in life with a lighter heart, full of confidence in your unveiled potential.
-Emma

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Praise: Career Change
I have been a public school teacher for 25 years. For the past 2 years, I've wanted to leave and work for myself. One of the things that makes this issue a difficult choice is a lack of confidence in myself, who I am, and in my skills and qualities. It is in this area that Shani has been most helpful. Her tools and kind, attentive listening have allowed me to clarity what I can bring to my future work that is both unique and original. This was a really exciting experience! I feel like I made big strides in knowing myself. I felt seen and was able to see myself. And...it's done, I've sent my resignation letter!
-Fabienne

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Praise: Finding My Purpose
I worked with Shani on identifying and defining my purpose.
I was really impressed by her process. She has an insightful way of digging in and asking questions to help you question the way your mind works, and what you're doing every day, and help you figure out how all of those things tie into a greater purpose for you.
It's a really interesting and eye-opening experience. It's made me think differently about how I go about my everyday life and thinking towards my long-term goals.
-Heather

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Services
Coaching
Individuals
Define your center - your Purpose and Values. Then, ask. If you had a magic wand, what would you ask for?
Excellent for personal and professional orientation and decisionmaking. Results in as little as 2 sessions.
Feel authentically seen
Gain a new perspective
Come away with a concrete, aligned action plan
Consulting
Business Partner Selection & Communication
An investment in communication and working together.
Reveal compatibilities and sources of tension.
Change the conversation from "A" or "B" to a discussion on what is truly important to each of you and both of you.
Get a new, shared outlook on Who You Are and Where You're Going, Together.
Organizational Culture & Engagement
What if you could look under the hood and find out your partner's values? I can help you do that.
Reveal compatibilities and sources of tension.
Change the conversation from "A" or "B" to a discussion on what is truly important to each of you and both of you.
Get a new, shared outlook on Who You Are and Where You're Going, Together.
Contact me for a personalized perspective on how your Inner Compass can move you forward.
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Praise: Clarity in Uncertainty
I sought Shani's guidance during a period of uncertainty in my personal and professional life, aiming to find a clearer direction and a sense of purpose. I greatly appreciate Shani's role in my life. Her insightful and empathetic nature has been instrumental in helping me understand myself better and in finding greater joy in my everyday activities. Shani has a unique talent for uncovering hidden strengths and fostering a deeper sense of self-awareness. Her approach is genuinely personalized, making our interactions not just helpful but deeply meaningful. Shani excels at asking thought-provoking questions that encourage reflection and personal insight, which has been valuable in guiding my decisions and directions. In times when I've faced challenges, Shani's support has been a constant source of strength. Her practical advice and encouragement have been key in helping me approach these situations with a more positive and resilient mindset. Thank you!
-Florian

Praise: Life Redesign
I had the chance to work with Shani shortly after I had arrived in Strasbourg without a job and no clear idea of what I wanted to do after having quit my former job and life in a different country. Initially, I wanted to meet Shani and learn from her local experience as a coach, but when we met I discovered her incredible ability to read other people and support them in finding their true purpose. I decided to work with her to gain clarity about my professional and private future.
Shani helped me to better identify and articulate my strengths, values and aspirations and to get clarity what kind of work and life context would fit to my personality. I recommend Shani to everybody who seeks a empathetic and precise coaching that provides clarity and increased self-awareness to redesign their future.
-Sabine

Praise: Find Your Path
As a therapist and someone in the field of growth and personal development, I happen to be kind of picky and have a very high standard for the people who I lean on, for the people that I trust, for the people that I know can serve me to the highest level and standard and who can open my eyes and broaden my horizons in ways that I haven’t seen; to uncover those rocks that I haven’t even checked under.
Shani is someone who does that for me. I wanted to take a moment to acknowledge her profound, deep wisdom, and her ability to make you feel seen, safe, heard, loved; to be able to help you truly see where you are and where you’re going, and make the path extra clear so that you’re not only aware of where you’re going, but you’re not walking alone.
-Jasmin
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shani AT tuningpoints.com
(old domain name, updated email address coming soon)
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What Should I Do?

What would you change if you had a magic wand?

This is the first question I ask my clients.The energy you feel when you answer that question - this is the inner spark I can help you connect with, the spark that will ignite the change you are seeking.

How To Connect with your Inner Intelligence

About Me

Praise: Moving Forward

Services

Coaching

Consulting

Praise: Clarity in Uncertainty

Reach Out

This is the first question I ask my clients.
The energy you feel when you answer that question -
this is the inner spark I can help you connect with,
the spark that will ignite the change you are seeking.